Cautiously Open

     i had a friendly disagreement with a Domme who is a very close SL friend today.  Someone brought up the idea of "topping from the bottom."  and i suggested it was a made up term that doesnt really exist.  Basically, i told her that i dont believe in it.  i dont believe in topping from the bottom.  She had valid points to make in her argument but in the end we has to agree to disagree on that particular topic.

     im not gonna list all the reasons that i do not believe in it.  But, if you are super curious about my reasoning, here is a link to an article that discusses this very topic in detail.

Topping from the Bottom?

     Also, i met an interesting divorced male Dominant who is around my age last night at bondage ranch.  The catch is he is from Italy and types in broken English.  i dont have problems understanding him so far but i can see how misunderstandings might occur and i do worry about that.  Also, im monogamous and i expect any Dominant im involved with to be also.  yes, im a submissive and i have expectations.  shocking i know.  He claims that he isnt a player and wants the same things i want.  We will see how it plays out.  if youve read my blog very much in the past then youll know most of my attempts to connect with Dominants online end in train wrecks.  i know what i want and im not willing to settle.  i kiss alot of frogs hoping one will turn into a Prince.  So, if you have trouble generating enthusiasm for my new dynamic, i certainly would understand lol  im cautiously open minded, as always.