i feel its more important sometimes to be a friend to someone you care about than just focus on the dynamic you might share or your romantic involvement. Being a friend first before anything else shows alot more caring and love in my opinion than kneeling to them does. Online you know, its easy to think that the dynamic is all there is or all that matters. But, i learned from my misadventures with a previous Owner that if you only have a dynamic and nothing else to fall back on when the routine of daily life or emergencies pop up that are unanticipated, then the entire thing can crumble and end in a snap of your fingers. Or once the trust is broken, its over. just like that. it doesnt matter how deep or intense your D/s dynamic is. if you are not friends and lovers first, if there is no vanilla relationship outside of a bdsm or D/s dynamic, then its doomed to fail.
Love can not exist inside a vacuum.
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