Consequences

     There is no chance in hell of me submitting to any of the men who have been messaging me so they need to stop forming a line waiting for their turn to use me.

     Another thing that was really getting on my nerves is all the subs whove immed me lately to complain about how they are being treated by tops in sl.  They end up in terrible horrifying situations with tops online that just make my mouth hang open in shock.  i wont betray anyones trust by using names but one female who is a submissive had cancer in RL and she hooked up with a high profile top in Second Life who wanted to control her in RL too. Since she wanted to please him, she obeyed him in RL for anything he desired.  One day, after her chemotherapy, he told her to go for a walk outside i guess for exercise.  He knew she has cancer and had just done chemo.  She collapsed during her walk and had to be taken to the emergency room.  She almost died in RL . . after serving an inexperienced top in Second Life.

     People always want to try to diminish the importance of what happens online.  i can not tell you how many arguments ive had with people in SL because they try to suggest submissives cant really be controlled online.  They can always just log out right?  Listen, i agree that submissives should try to take some responsibility for the decisions they make and what happens to them online.  HOWEVER, can we please try not to forget that this isnt just roleplay for real submissives?  if they give their power to someone, even online, its still real power they are giving.  its still Real Life.  and honestly, if its not real power then its not real bdsm or D/s.  only roleplaying.  Tops are always pressuring submissives to trust them, surrender to them.  But, then when subs actually do it, the same tops want to claim they are not responsible for the submission theyve taken.  You cant have it both ways ffs.  Ultimately, the tops and Doms who take control of real life subs have a real life responsibility.  The responsibility ALWAYS lands squarely on the Dom's shoulders, not the submissives and there is a reason for that.  the reason is real life subs are vulnerable in a  way other types of people are not.  and im sick of people trying to say thats not true.  it is true.  Sorry for venting but actually im not sorry.  are these morons gonna wait until the police come to take them and their computers away before they realize there are consequences?